Thursday, August 22, 2013

Parents are a full time job, agree?


jo frost: extreme parental guidance.

it is a good show really. banyak info menarik, yang sometimes kite rasa remeh as a parent tapi beri impak yang besar for the kids. so last night, there are a few lessons that i learnt from the 1st episode:

a. as a parents kite kene tegas untuk disiplinkan anak. for example, jadualkan waktu makan untuk seisi keluarga (breakfast, lunch and dinner) and make sure makan di dine table bukan depan tv so on and so forth. if anak tak abis makan, set aside makanan dia yang left over tu for 30 minutes so that if dia lapar lagi nanti, makan apa yang dia tinggalkan, no snack or what so ever. never force eat them sebab bleh buat anak rasa stress and refuse to eat. eating should be fun kan macam untuk kite adults (like me!). bukan apa, tengok diri kite, bile kite force something, kite tend to be aggressive, btol? so, anak rasa takut and tak seronok. should we blame them sebab takmo makan? no right :)

b. always have time with your children. terutama skali bile dia nak cerita something or mengadu ke, sibuk macamane kite masa tu, we have to sit down and listen to them. do not shut them out. at times khayra nak tunjuk hasil kerja dia like drawing or 'cooking', i was like, kejap mummy sibuk ni nanti mummy tengok. i was so wrong. simple thing as that bleh down kan self-esteem anak, bleh buat diorg rasa less important. 

c. violent video games bleh buat anak less peka, less helpful, insensitive dan kasar of cos! pakar buat kajian, bila someone yang biasa main games yang ganas, then bila dia tengok tv ada news perang-perang ni (for example), diorg rase bende tu normal. dah macam takde perasaan dah. ada one time ni pakar saja nak test budak-budak yang main games ni, dalam sesi interview one-to-one, dia saja jatuhkan bekas pen pensils dia, just to see how the children will react, diorg just tengok jek bende tu jatuh and do nothing. do nothing ok! tak de nak tolong ke apa. beza dengan kids yang main games biasa like game bola, 80% tolong kutip balik pen pencils yang jatuh tu. i am so scared untuk my children. i really do hope i could raise them dengan baik. anyway, moral, limitkan time diorg bile main computer, control apa diorg main or tengok cerita kat tv. skang zaman techno kan, banyak cabaran lagi akan datang. good luck to us all! wuuwuu..

tak sabar nak tengok next episode. hope korang pon bleh praktikkan jugak sama-sama dengan ai yek hehehehe!!!!





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