Part 2 : The new me

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after the birth, Dr brinta pun jahit apa-apa yang patut (",) thank God ku tidak angkat my bottom time push-push, kalau tak, lagi koyak banyak! huhu.. ngeri! baby pun tak besar mane so doctor pun takyah nak cut-cut (^.^) nway, selepas itu, mummy ditahan untuk sehari lagi di PE room (tak tau PE stands for what) kat situ, one nurse was assigned to look after mummy. everything i need, dia akan tolong, even lap badan, tukar pad minum air sumenye diorang tolong. rasa macam duduk kat ICU plaks. huhu! baby pulak nurse kat wad jaga (kitorg diseperatekan *sob*) time breastfeeding baru dia bawak baby jumpe mummy.

oh, pengalaman breastfeeding for the first time.... agak kekok at first but i managed to breastfeed my baby!! no problem dengan susu tak keluar ke nipple sakit ke. alhamdulillah sangat-sangat. setiap solat mummy doakan agar permudahkan proses bersalin and bf ni. time ni mummy rindu kat baby mummy! orang lain boleh terus hug baby dia, tapi mummy plak kene tunggu nurse bawakkan baby. sedih sangat!

so around 12.30pm on the next day, mummy pun ditransfer ke wad biasa semula, 1B. mummy bleh sama-sama ngan baby!! sangat seronok! so bermula la journey kami berdua.. as usual, nurses and doctors still monitor bp mummy tapi once in 4 hours. bp mummy tak jugak stable. mane taknya, orang tengah tido memalam, dia kejutkan kite macam bangunan nak runtuh suarenye! mane tak bp mummy trus naik!! terkejut ooo! kalau gitu bilenye mummy boleh balik ni kalau bp dok turun naik! haihhh depa nih....

esoknya specialist round tengok patients. dia tengok baby, terus suruh check tsb baby (darah untuk check jaundis). sedih lagi, baby kene admit ke wad 6C for jaundis!! kene seperate lagi. mummy nangis macam nak gila. kesian bile kenangkan doctor cucuk baby untuk test darah! mummy pun berulang turun naik untuk bf baby mummy. sayu tengok dia tido sorang-sorang bawah lampu tu. tapi alhamdulillah baby kene tahan satu malam jek.

oh, lupe nak crite, tengahari tu daddy mengamuk ngan nurses and doctors wad 1B. daddy bising la mummy dok seminggu kat situ tapi bp still tak stable jugak macam diorang tak buat apa-apa. pastu diorang tanye la, pe maksud tak buat apa-apa tu. daddy pertikaikan la macam apa solution diorang besides medication and diorang kata mummy kene tenang. pe lagi, daddy melenting la, macammane nak tenang kalau keadaan sini hiruk-pikuk! dah lama booking untuk first class pun still tak dapat-dapat lagi. and secara tibe-tibe, sejam kemudian, terus nurse tu kata ada kosong kat wad first class. tak tau la apa motif diorang nak tahan mummy kat situ. menyakitkan kepala jek... aiyo aiyo....

to be continued....

Lots of love,

FYHA

Part 1 : Unexpected

yes, for those who knew, i had safely delivered a baby girl (^.^) nak tau cerite? hmm a bit menggila but sangat menakjubkan! huhu...

12th april 2010, i was supposed to go for check up at kk senawang. at first, everything went smoothly until the nurse checked my bp (blood pressure), 150/90. she referred me to the gynae, and again, my bp still same jugak. then, dia kata mummy kene admit ke hospital on the dot! baru berangan nak makan breakfast at mc d ngan enche suami!! huuhuhu.... dah la labour bag ada kat kl lagi. kunun nak start letak dalam kete next week la! aiyo aiyo!

bermula la perjalanan dengan menaiki ambulance okeh! ne no ne no!!! sangat gayat dan menakutkan cara pembawakan yek.. huhu! sampai kat spital, trus naek wheelchair ke screening room untuk check baby. after 1/2 hour, settled down kat ward 1B around 11am. oleh kerana mummy ade high bp, the nurses kene monitor every hour. rimas, lemas, panas, sumenye ada lah!

malam pun menjelang. kali ni check bp every 2 hours. try nak lelap mata tapi tak bleh, maybe tempat baru, panas lagi, kurang selesa, bising, terang dengan lampu, oh, menci!! around 3-4am, bp ku terus naek 180/100!! kepala rasa sakit, loya dan muntah. itu tanda untuk pre-eclampsia (sawan). doctor and nurses agak gelabah skit. then, one doctor came to me and said i had to be induced. alamak.. mental tak prepare lagi ni untuk push push!!!

mummy pun trus call kak ngah (daddy tido tak sedarkan diri, huhu) and dalam kul 4.30am daddy and tok ma sampai ke labour room. kat situ, diorang pun mula menebuk tangan mummy untuk masukkan air, bagi ubat, magnesium sulfat (untuk stablekan bp) and tiub untuk urine. seksa? yes, but i'll do anything for my baby! then, 6.45am, Dr brinta did the induce. dia masukkan pil sampai ke pangkal rahim. sakit woo!! nurse pun kasi injection untuk kurangkan sakit. pe ntah nama ubat tu, lupa sudah... tapi yang penting bukan epidural :) mummy pun rasa a bit high, ngantuk and terlelap. tapi memang dah start rasa contraction setiap 15-10 minit.

12.45pm, Dr brinta checked dah bukak 3cm, then dia pecahkan air ketuban. sakit jugak!! haa time ni contraction dah makin kerap. tengok jam, sakit setiap 3 minit!! aiyo aiyo, dah nak dekat dah ni!! rasa sakit dia macam senggugut and sembelit at the same time.

3pm, mummy bagitau nurse yang mummy nak uk uk sangat-sangat dah ni! hehe.... dia pun tengok la, terus jerit, rambut baby!!! apelagi, doctors and nurses kelam kabut la sebab diorang tak expect mummy secepat ni. masa tu la one of the doctors explain camane nak push push. hehe!! lawak pun ada tapi dah sakit tak leh nak gelak. so mula la adegan pushing memushing... luckily, before this sempat mintak advise and tips dari kawan-kawan yang ada experience, so mummy pun praktikkan la.. thanx hot mamas!!

3.27pm, 13th april 2010, lahir la my lil one ke donia!! ya Allah, terasa sangat-sangat lega dan puas!!! nurses pun timbang weight baby, check fizikal and alhamdulillah, baby sihat, 2.25 kg dan normal. dia pun letak baby atas mummy untuk stimulate rangsangan antara baby and mummy. pastu diorang amik baby balik untuk bersihkan baby...

to be continued..........

Lot of love,

FYHA

More and more exciting news

minggu ni mummy dah week 36!! waaa tak sabarnya nak jumpa ngan dak kecik ni =D

tadi pagi pegi check up, everything is ok. blood pressure-110/70, berat- 58.5 kg, HB-10.1 (alhamdulillah sekarang makin naik), baby's heart rate- 135 bpm, berat baby- 2.7 kg (mungkinkah 3 kg masa lahir?) and kaki pun kurang bengkak dah. masa scan pun baby tak de yang abnormal jugak. aktif tu biase la, sampai doctor nak tengok sayang pun kene tengok betul-betul sebab tak leh dok diam. yela risau jugak kot tetibe baby songsang (mintak jauh). doktor kata air ketuban pun no problem... leganye.......

mummy dah decide nak start maternity leave one week before due. amik awal sgt, sayang cuti pulak. so, time menuggu tu, kita akan duduk kat kampung daddy, sampai pantang dalam seminggu. pas seminggu tu, kita balik kampung mummy plak k! (wah, dah panggil kampung dah ni) huahua...

whatever pun, kedatangan sayang sangat la ditunggu-tunggu oleh ramai orang ni. tadi time mummy nak balik kl pun ibu mummy siap pesan lagi, take care of my cucu! hehehe... abis la mesti diorang ni spoilt kan anak mummy ni...

dialog best untuk last week:

mummy : ayah, lagi sebulan ayah nak jadi tok wan!

ayah mummy : ingatkan lagi seminggu.

mummy : (wah ayah aku ni pandai loya buruk ni) sabar yah, kang tak lena tido malam sebab baby nanges.

ayah mummy : tak po, ok.

mummy : *terharu* huhu...

Lots of love,

FYHA

Counting days...........

2nd april sudah? lagi 30 hari lagi nak due ni. aduh aduh... takutnye!! tak pe, orang lain gave birth sihat jek, aku pun bleh buat jugak!! *ayat sedap kan hati* huhu...

so far, cuti bersalin still dalam kire-kire lagi. plan nak amik seminggu awal bcos nak deliver kat seremban kan. kot tak sempat nak balik, haru jek! tapi tengok la camne. dengar dari pengalaman ramai kawan-kawan, sangat unpredictable timing baby ni. ade yang week 38 dah tak sabar nak tengok donia dah :) ada yang seminggu awal, one day before, on the day itself, lewat sehari pun ada! haaa.. tapi majoriti, awal seminggu laa.

ok, since the day i have been waiting for is finally near, i wanna share with u, soon-to-be mommys out there a few tips about labour that i read in my baby book.

! Sign that labour is near

- braxton hicks (pre labour) tightening increase in frequency but are irregular

- vaginal discharge may increase

- may have loose bowel movements for 1-2 days

- nesting instinct - urge to have everything ready and organized

! Sign that labour is starting

- there is only one positive sign of labour and that is contractions that are regular and increasing in length, strength and frequency

! Other sign you may see are

- the mucous plug which sits in the cervix and seals off the womb during pregnancy

- release of the water bag

so there, fahamkan my deary? jangan konfius dengan braxton hicks and contractions yang sebenar tau. braxton hicks sakit jap jek pastu dia hilang. yang tu masa dah masuk 3rd tri pun dah bleh rase dah.

apa-apa pun, i am sure that we are going to make it and bring the lil' one out into the world!! semangat waja okeh! and oh, skrang tengah basuh baju baby!!! ngeee.....

p/s: starting next monday, my visit to the doctor becomes a weekly affair. amek darah every week?? errkkkk..

Lots of love,

FYHA

Something to think about

ok, this entry has nothing to do with the progress of my pregnancy. saja nak lepaskan apa yang terbuku di hati nih (*_*)

Situasi 1

kapochi A : bakal anak kamu laki ke pompuan?

fyha : ooo kami nak surprise, tak kisah la janji sihat.

kapochi A : lor, abis tu susah la nak beli barang2 blue ke pink.

fyha : *erkk*

knape kalo girl orang kaitkan pink and boy kaler blue? kan banyak lagi kaler lain. shallow minded btul la!! skang zaman moden, tak kisah la pakai kaler ape pun, baby tu tetap kiut jugak okeh!!

Situasi 2

fyha : apa?! dapat baby girl?

mangsa A : yela, baby girl.. alhamdulillah..

fyha : dulu dok scan kata dapat boy, camne leh salah plak ni?

mangsa A : tak tahu la, dah anak aku pakai barang serba biru la ni..

fyha : tak pe la, nak wat camne dah...

haa.. tula, dok konfiden kan p scan aritu. doktor tu pun manusia jugak, standard la tu buat salah. tapi kita ni jangan la dok taksub sangat tang kaler tu. kan dah....

Situasi 3

kapochi B : dah kawin brapa lama dah?

fyha : dah nak masuk dua tahun dah.

kapochi B : tak de baby lagi ke?

fyha : belum ada rezeki lagi nak wat camne.

kapochi B : lambat yek conceive. tak pe cuba lagi.

fyha : *senyum kelat*

okeh, kalau jadi kes ni kepada anda, di harap anda sound orang tu balik bleh tak bagi pihak saya? sukati la aku nak dapat baby bile, hal2 ni bukan dalam tangan kita! it's like you're asking me whether we are actually having sex! duhhh....!!!! *ada terbaca blog member, she got a point!* seriously, soklan macam ni buat orang stress tau. can you just let it be, tak bleh ke? banyak lagi soklan nak tanya kan.. arrghhh! tensi! now im carrying my first baby, nanti percaya la, mesti ada yang gatai mulut tanya, bila nak dapat adik plak! wth.....

Situasi 4

kapochi C : anak you dapat brape result exam aritu?

kapochi D : ada la sket, 3 A jek.

kapochi C : oh, anak i dapat straight A's!

kapochi D : waa congrats! *sambil muka ketat*

tolong la jangan jadikan anak anda battle field anda dan kapochi yang lain okeh.. your children could not care less pun dengan sapa yang menang! korang buat lagi anak2 ni lagi stress tau! okeh la, maybe i do not have any children just yet but I still know the feelings. even kita pun dah rasa kan time sekolah dulu, so why do we have to make our children suffer jugak, btul? why can't we be the cool mom instead?

renung-renungkan lah dan selamat beramal!! hehehe......

Lots of love

FYHA

I dropped my lil one!

tajuk yang menakutkan? hahaha... ni nak cerite ni, last monday i went for my routine check up kat KK Senawang. my mom-in-law yang check my blood pressure, weight, and albumin test. so far semua ok. then, met the staff nurse and dia check kaki, perut, heart rate baby. well, kaki, still bengkak walaupun tak teruk macam aritu, heart rate baby normal (my mom-in-law sangat teruja bila dgr heartbeat baby! so cute!) and perut, apparently baby dah drops lower into my pelvic region! (mcm gambar kt atas ni). actually kita dah tau dah since last scanned aritu tapi kali ni, alhamdulillah, no abnormalities jugak :)

by the way, i am so so happy bcos it is closer to the birth of my BIG day. yeayy!! another 40 days to go.. weehuuuu!!! he or she will be ready to come out to see the world soon! but this also mean less sleep, eat more and hmm less work i say? hehehe!

apa-apa pun, i am enjoying my pregnancy moment and i am thinking to capture this final moment dalam piccas. photo shoot? *BIG grin*

p/s : picture di atas was googled, not mine :)

Lots of love,

FYHA

Dugaan dugaan

gara-gara shopping and mengemas tak hengat donia, i could not go to work today. why? tak bleh jalan!! sangat sakit, macam kene gout plak neh *sob*sob*

mummy : ney, sakit, takleh jalan! *muka sedih*

daddy : b nak tongkat? *muka riak*

mummy : cis!

sila jadikan pengajaran yek wahai bakal ibu-ibu di luar sana. huhu......

Lots of love,

FYHA