Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Anugerah terindah

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selepas kehadiran khayra, our life becomes more meaningful and priceless! i could just stare at her for 24/7, i don't want to miss every single movement of hers. so far, alhamdulillah, kuning dia dah semakin kurang (jaundis bcos of breastmilk), pandai dah meragam kalau lapar or pampers dah wet. tak pun tetibe nangis kalau nak attention (^.^) sangat comel! kene bangun 3-4 am tu dah jadi normal dah. tapi mummy tak kisah, berkorban untuk khayra ku sayang :) daddy pun dah semakin sihat jugak (demam teruk since mummy kat hospital lagi, demam rindu kot =p).
esok mummy ada appointment ngan specialist untuk follow up blood pressure mummy. khayra akan di poskan ke umah naani (my mom) sebab tok ma (zazi's mom) ada meeting. naani apa lagi, happy tergedik la! hehehe.... yela, skrang mummy pantang kat umah tok ma, naani takde can nak main ngan khayra lagi. dah la khayra 1st cucu untuk both side. camne la time raya nanti gak nye...
anyway, here are a few things yang mummy experience time delivery aritu. for those soon-to-be mummy, try praktikkan, insya Allah everythings gonna be alrite :)

1. midwife ada bagi injection untuk pain relief, pethidine, 1-2 hours after induced. pls bare in mind, mummy tak ada choice as they did not ask me whether i need it or not. sume orang tau, drugs ada side effects kan. so, disadvantage of using pethidine are:

- nausea or vomitting
- drowsy and confused
- difficulty passing urine, dry mouth, hallucinations, respiratory depression, low blood pressure and allergic reaction
- can cause breathing difficulties after birth due to its depressive effect on the baby’s respiratory centre (tapi ini kemungkinan jadi if baby lahir 1-3 jam selepas injection diberikan)
- baby's are more likely to have jaundice if their mother have pethedine
- boleh effect baby's sucking reflex and can cause breastfeeding difficulties for the first few days

so my deary, pls be aware. consult with your midwife first about your birth plan especially when it comes to pain relief. yes, diorang nak tolong kurangkan kesakitan but at least they have to ask your permission first kan? but, at that time, mummy just knocked out jek. no vomitting or whatsoever, cuma lagi satu yang mummy terkilan pasal jaundis tu yang kene kat baby, tak pasal-pasal jek khayra dua kali kene admit wad. breastfeeding pun no problem.

2. experience dipecahkan air ketuban... hmm sakit memang sakit tapi kurang skit sakitnya kalau kita tak keraskan kaki and muscle kat bahagian vaginal tu. bende alah yang nak pecahkan air ketuban tu panjang dik oi!! siap ada hook lagi ujung nye. memang agak gerun bile tengok, tu yang dok kemut kat 'tang' tu! so tarik nafas panjang, relax, insya Allah sume okeh. kejap jek dia pecahkan...

3. pas pecah air ketuban, contraction akan semakin kuat. dia rasa macam perut kita kene tarik, cramp. so, mula la tengok jam yek. masa ni pethedine tu dah tak lut dah. kene la tahan sakit macamane ibu kita rasa sakit time bawak kita dulu :) time ni mummy baca dah surah-surah yang patut untuk tenangkan jiwa and kuatkan semangat. menjadi jugak...

4. bile contraction, jangan teran! save kan energy! ramai kawan-kawan mummy nasihatkan, memang berguna sangat. bila kita dah start teran, nanti bile time nak teran baby betul-betul, kita dah letih dah. so, kita tak nak jadi camtu, takut baby lemas sebab lama sangat dah. bile korang rasa betul-betul macam nak buang air besar (mind my language), masa tu la korang inform midwife or staff nurse yang ada kat situ. maybe dah tibe masa dah. haaa time tu bile midwife suruh teran, korang push sehabis baik k! jangan kuarkan suara kalau boleh, bukannya membantu pun. lagi korang habis nafas ada la..

5. jangan lupa makan untuk energy yek. tapi bagi yang ada problem/komplikasi macam mummy, tak digalakkan makan sebab kemungkinan kene buat c-sec.

so, macam mane? dah ready mentally and physically? hehhe... ala tak de bende la. betul kata orang, once nampak muka baby kita, all the pain was worth it. hilang semua sakit. trust me! all the best, and wish you all the happiness to you and family (^.^)


Lots of love,
FYHA

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Nur Khayra Nisrin

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introduce to you, my new born baby girl, nur khayra nisrin (cahaya kebaikan bunga yang harum) i know the name does not make any sense but as long as ada makna, why not kan :) plus, nama tu macam rare digunakan and sedap didengar (^.^)

A baby girl knows from the very beginning
How to play life’s game and come out winning.
Her pink-cheeked face, her adorable curls
Will reel you right in; that’s the way of girls.

She’ll flutter those lashes in a wide-eyed stare;
It’s all calculated to make you care.
And those baby girl noises, the sigh and the coo...
She’ll play baby poker, and the jackpot is you!

But whatever happens, she’s always a pleasure,
So spend lots of time with your little treasure.

By Joanna Fuchs


Lots of love,
FYHA

Part 3 : One happy tree.. At last!

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16th april, around 6.30pm, after bf my baby upstairs, mummy ditransfer ke wad 1D, alhamdulillah! malam tu buat pertama kali nye dalam this week mummy tido dengan nyenyak dan aman!! bp mummy terus turun, 130/90. still borderline but better than before kan. kalau dari awal diorang transfer, lama dah mummy bleh balik! huhu...
on the next day, after lunch, nurse hantar baby ke bilik mummy. weeee... mummy sangat teruja masa tu. peluk cium sayang banyak-banyak!! but sadly, kita still tak boleh discharge lagi sebabkan nak monitor bp and albumin mummy lagi. why? okeh, ingat lagi doctor ada masukkan magnesium sulfat dalam badan mummy time dalam labour room? haa.. magnesium sulfat is one of the toxics. so mereka-mereka ni nak monitor dalam 5 hari pastikan badan mummy clean 100%. toxic tu keluar melalui urine, dari situ diorang boleh detect kalau ada buah pinggang problem. faham my deary? tu la mummy kene tahan sampai seminggu! huhuh.. seksa mentalku!
19th april, 12.30pm, baby dibawa ke atas skali lagi sebabkan jaundis, again! arrgghhh tension!! dah terperap tak kene sunlight, memang la budak kecik tu kuning lagi. ape lagi, mummy nanges la lagi!! *sob* dugaan banyak betul dok kat sini. nasib kene tahan satu hari jek. itupun mummy tak sanggup dah (terbayang macamane perasaan ibu-ibu yang anaknya dikidnap)
21th april, 1.00pm, akhirnya mummy and baby bleh discharge!!!! waaaaa seronok gile.. tak sabar nak bawak baby ke donia luar. daddy datang jemput, skali dengan uncle man (^.^)
now, i have a great husband and a beautiful baby girl. oh,bliss!!!!

the end.

P/s: thanks for those who come and visit us in the hospital. we really appreciate it very much :)


Lots of love,
FYHA

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Part 2 : The new me

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after the birth, Dr brinta pun jahit apa-apa yang patut (",) thank God ku tidak angkat my bottom time push-push, kalau tak, lagi koyak banyak! huhu.. ngeri! baby pun tak besar mane so doctor pun takyah nak cut-cut (^.^) nway, selepas itu, mummy ditahan untuk sehari lagi di PE room (tak tau PE stands for what) kat situ, one nurse was assigned to look after mummy. everything i need, dia akan tolong, even lap badan, tukar pad minum air sumenye diorang tolong. rasa macam duduk kat ICU plaks. huhu! baby pulak nurse kat wad jaga (kitorg diseperatekan *sob*) time breastfeeding baru dia bawak baby jumpe mummy.
oh, pengalaman breastfeeding for the first time.... agak kekok at first but i managed to breastfeed my baby!! no problem dengan susu tak keluar ke nipple sakit ke. alhamdulillah sangat-sangat. setiap solat mummy doakan agar permudahkan proses bersalin and bf ni. time ni mummy rindu kat baby mummy! orang lain boleh terus hug baby dia, tapi mummy plak kene tunggu nurse bawakkan baby. sedih sangat!
so around 12.30pm on the next day, mummy pun ditransfer ke wad biasa semula, 1B. mummy bleh sama-sama ngan baby!! sangat seronok! so bermula la journey kami berdua.. as usual, nurses and doctors still monitor bp mummy tapi once in 4 hours. bp mummy tak jugak stable. mane taknya, orang tengah tido memalam, dia kejutkan kite macam bangunan nak runtuh suarenye! mane tak bp mummy trus naik!! terkejut ooo! kalau gitu bilenye mummy boleh balik ni kalau bp dok turun naik! haihhh depa nih....
esoknya specialist round tengok patients. dia tengok baby, terus suruh check tsb baby (darah untuk check jaundis). sedih lagi, baby kene admit ke wad 6C for jaundis!! kene seperate lagi. mummy nangis macam nak gila. kesian bile kenangkan doctor cucuk baby untuk test darah! mummy pun berulang turun naik untuk bf baby mummy. sayu tengok dia tido sorang-sorang bawah lampu tu. tapi alhamdulillah baby kene tahan satu malam jek.
oh, lupe nak crite, tengahari tu daddy mengamuk ngan nurses and doctors wad 1B. daddy bising la mummy dok seminggu kat situ tapi bp still tak stable jugak macam diorang tak buat apa-apa. pastu diorang tanye la, pe maksud tak buat apa-apa tu. daddy pertikaikan la macam apa solution diorang besides medication and diorang kata mummy kene tenang. pe lagi, daddy melenting la, macammane nak tenang kalau keadaan sini hiruk-pikuk! dah lama booking untuk first class pun still tak dapat-dapat lagi. and secara tibe-tibe, sejam kemudian, terus nurse tu kata ada kosong kat wad first class. tak tau la apa motif diorang nak tahan mummy kat situ. menyakitkan kepala jek... aiyo aiyo....

to be continued....


Lots of love,
FYHA

Friday, April 23, 2010

Part 1 : Unexpected

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yes, for those who knew, i had safely delivered a baby girl (^.^) nak tau cerite? hmm a bit menggila but sangat menakjubkan! huhu...
12th april 2010, i was supposed to go for check up at kk senawang. at first, everything went smoothly until the nurse checked my bp (blood pressure), 150/90. she referred me to the gynae, and again, my bp still same jugak. then, dia kata mummy kene admit ke hospital on the dot! baru berangan nak makan breakfast at mc d ngan enche suami!! huuhuhu.... dah la labour bag ada kat kl lagi. kunun nak start letak dalam kete next week la! aiyo aiyo!
bermula la perjalanan dengan menaiki ambulance okeh! ne no ne no!!! sangat gayat dan menakutkan cara pembawakan yek.. huhu! sampai kat spital, trus naek wheelchair ke screening room untuk check baby. after 1/2 hour, settled down kat ward 1B around 11am. oleh kerana mummy ade high bp, the nurses kene monitor every hour. rimas, lemas, panas, sumenye ada lah!
malam pun menjelang. kali ni check bp every 2 hours. try nak lelap mata tapi tak bleh, maybe tempat baru, panas lagi, kurang selesa, bising, terang dengan lampu, oh, menci!! around 3-4am, bp ku terus naek 180/100!! kepala rasa sakit, loya dan muntah. itu tanda untuk pre-eclampsia (sawan). doctor and nurses agak gelabah skit. then, one doctor came to me and said i had to be induced. alamak.. mental tak prepare lagi ni untuk push push!!!
mummy pun trus call kak ngah (daddy tido tak sedarkan diri, huhu) and dalam kul 4.30am daddy and tok ma sampai ke labour room. kat situ, diorang pun mula menebuk tangan mummy untuk masukkan air, bagi ubat, magnesium sulfat (untuk stablekan bp) and tiub untuk urine. seksa? yes, but i'll do anything for my baby! then, 6.45am, Dr brinta did the induce. dia masukkan pil sampai ke pangkal rahim. sakit woo!! nurse pun kasi injection untuk kurangkan sakit. pe ntah nama ubat tu, lupa sudah... tapi yang penting bukan epidural :) mummy pun rasa a bit high, ngantuk and terlelap. tapi memang dah start rasa contraction setiap 15-10 minit.
12.45pm, Dr brinta checked dah bukak 3cm, then dia pecahkan air ketuban. sakit jugak!! haa time ni contraction dah makin kerap. tengok jam, sakit setiap 3 minit!! aiyo aiyo, dah nak dekat dah ni!! rasa sakit dia macam senggugut and sembelit at the same time.
3pm, mummy bagitau nurse yang mummy nak uk uk sangat-sangat dah ni! hehe.... dia pun tengok la, terus jerit, rambut baby!!! apelagi, doctors and nurses kelam kabut la sebab diorang tak expect mummy secepat ni. masa tu la one of the doctors explain camane nak push push. hehe!! lawak pun ada tapi dah sakit tak leh nak gelak. so mula la adegan pushing memushing... luckily, before this sempat mintak advise and tips dari kawan-kawan yang ada experience, so mummy pun praktikkan la.. thanx hot mamas!!
3.27pm, 13th april 2010, lahir la my lil one ke donia!! ya Allah, terasa sangat-sangat lega dan puas!!! nurses pun timbang weight baby, check fizikal and alhamdulillah, baby sihat, 2.25 kg dan normal. dia pun letak baby atas mummy untuk stimulate rangsangan antara baby and mummy. pastu diorang amik baby balik untuk bersihkan baby...

to be continued..........


Lot of love,
FYHA

Monday, April 5, 2010

More and more exciting news

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minggu ni mummy dah week 36!! waaa tak sabarnya nak jumpa ngan dak kecik ni =D
tadi pagi pegi check up, everything is ok. blood pressure-110/70, berat- 58.5 kg, HB-10.1 (alhamdulillah sekarang makin naik), baby's heart rate- 135 bpm, berat baby- 2.7 kg (mungkinkah 3 kg masa lahir?) and kaki pun kurang bengkak dah. masa scan pun baby tak de yang abnormal jugak. aktif tu biase la, sampai doctor nak tengok sayang pun kene tengok betul-betul sebab tak leh dok diam. yela risau jugak kot tetibe baby songsang (mintak jauh). doktor kata air ketuban pun no problem... leganye.......
mummy dah decide nak start maternity leave one week before due. amik awal sgt, sayang cuti pulak. so, time menuggu tu, kita akan duduk kat kampung daddy, sampai pantang dalam seminggu. pas seminggu tu, kita balik kampung mummy plak k! (wah, dah panggil kampung dah ni) huahua...
whatever pun, kedatangan sayang sangat la ditunggu-tunggu oleh ramai orang ni. tadi time mummy nak balik kl pun ibu mummy siap pesan lagi, take care of my cucu! hehehe... abis la mesti diorang ni spoilt kan anak mummy ni...

dialog best untuk last week:

mummy : ayah, lagi sebulan ayah nak jadi tok wan!
ayah mummy : ingatkan lagi seminggu.
mummy : (wah ayah aku ni pandai loya buruk ni) sabar yah, kang tak lena tido malam sebab baby nanges.
ayah mummy : tak po, ok.
mummy : *terharu* huhu...


Lots of love,
FYHA

Friday, April 2, 2010

Counting days...........

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2nd april sudah? lagi 30 hari lagi nak due ni. aduh aduh... takutnye!! tak pe, orang lain gave birth sihat jek, aku pun bleh buat jugak!! *ayat sedap kan hati* huhu...
so far, cuti bersalin still dalam kire-kire lagi. plan nak amik seminggu awal bcos nak deliver kat seremban kan. kot tak sempat nak balik, haru jek! tapi tengok la camne. dengar dari pengalaman ramai kawan-kawan, sangat unpredictable timing baby ni. ade yang week 38 dah tak sabar nak tengok donia dah :) ada yang seminggu awal, one day before, on the day itself, lewat sehari pun ada! haaa.. tapi majoriti, awal seminggu laa.
ok, since the day i have been waiting for is finally near, i wanna share with u, soon-to-be mommys out there a few tips about labour that i read in my baby book.

! Sign that labour is near
- braxton hicks (pre labour) tightening increase in frequency but are irregular
- vaginal discharge may increase
- may have loose bowel movements for 1-2 days
- nesting instinct - urge to have everything ready and organized


! Sign that labour is starting
- there is only one positive sign of labour and that is contractions that are regular and increasing in length, strength and frequency


! Other sign you may see are
- the mucous plug which sits in the cervix and seals off the womb during pregnancy
- release of the water bag

so there, fahamkan my deary? jangan konfius dengan braxton hicks and contractions yang sebenar tau. braxton hicks sakit jap jek pastu dia hilang. yang tu masa dah masuk 3rd tri pun dah bleh rase dah.
apa-apa pun, i am sure that we are going to make it and bring the lil' one out into the world!! semangat waja okeh! and oh, skrang tengah basuh baju baby!!! ngeee.....


p/s: starting next monday, my visit to the doctor becomes a weekly affair. amek darah every week?? errkkkk..


Lots of love,
FYHA
 

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